An older man’s guide to approaching younger women online


March 20, 2008 – 9:55 am

If you are a man who loves to date younger women, you should try your luck online.

Online dating websites have made it possible for everyone to find the person of their dreams, no matter what their preference is.

If you like younger women, there is no better place to hook up than online. There are online dating sites tailored specifically to your tastes, websites packed full of women who are eager to meet an older man. How do you get started?

The first thing that you need to do is find a website that you are comfortable with. You can do this through a simple search using your favorite search engine.

Once you have found a few prospects, take a little while to become familiar with each. Next, you will need to fill out a profile on one or two of your favorite sites. Remember to be honest and fill out every section as best as you can.

After you have filled out your profile, you can begin looking at younger women’s profiles. If you become overwhelmed by the amount of profiles available, use the search filter options.

These options will allow you to narrow down your search to local women who meet certain criteria specified by you. You should also take advantage of the “add to favorites” function. This will allow you to store profiles of women who catch your eye in a separate location so you can easily access them later.

Approaching women online is a lot different than approaching them in person. The first avenue that you have open to you is the “wink” or “kiss” option.

What this does is send an automated email to the lady in question along with a link to your profile. If she likes what she sees, she can wink or blow you a kiss back. You may also wish to send a personal email to ladies that you found especially interesting.

Once a woman indicates interest, it’s time to take it to the next phase. You can start by emailing through the dating website’s email system.

This option will not allow either of you to see each other’s personal email address. When you feel comfortable enough, you can exchange personal information such as email and instant messaging IDs.

Remember to be respectful and considerate in all of your correspondence. This is your one chance to make a good impression. What you do now will either guarantee you a date or guarantee a lonely Saturday night.

Be sure to talk about her interests and really get to know her. Be open and divulge information that will let her see who you truly are. Stay away from suggestive or erotic chat unless she leads the discussion in that direction.

Now is your time to shine. Be a perfect gentleman, and you will have a date before you know it. Who knows, you could even meet the woman of your dreams.