BBW dating: how and when to take it to the next level


March 19, 2008 – 1:42 pm

Dating BBWs online can be a great way to meet numerous, big beautiful women, any one of which could be the perfect lady for you.

And it’s fun! But ultimately there will come that nerve-wracking day when it becomes very clear that you want something more than a virtual connection with one of the women you’ve met online.

How do you make the transition? How do you keep your nervous stomach under control? How, when and where do you meet?

Even if you have been chatting with a BBW for a while and feel quite relaxed, this is not the time to let chivalry slip out the back door.

Online dating is fun, but it can also be risky. Show respect for the BBW who has caught your eye by always keeping her best interests ahead of your own. When it comes time to talk on the telephone, offer her your number first.

Allow her to call you and talk to you a few times before she is comfortable enough with you to let you have her number.

Phone conversations should always come before the first date. Be prepared to put in the time to get to know each other.

See if you connect on the phone before you ask her out on a date. When it does come time to ask her out, ask her over the phone. Do not send an offline message or a text message. Treat your BBW like the lady she is.

On the first date, you should always meet in a public place. You might even want to encourage her to bring a friend along. Again, this is only out of respect.

What you’re trying to do is put her at ease with you. Meeting in a social setting with a small group of friends is sometimes a good idea. Make it a short meeting. Use the time to feel each other out and see if there is a physical connection. If so, let the dating begin!

When you’re dating a BBW, treat her like a lady. Pick her up for dates, open doors and treat her with the utmost respect.

Just because you hook up with a woman online doesn’t make her a call girl. Show her the time of her life.

So, what do you do about those nerves? Asking a girl out for the first time can be very nerve wrecking, especially if you haven’t dated in a long time. The key to tackling your nerves is to let the relationship progress to a point where you feel comfortable asking her out.

Talk to her on the phone. Really get to know her. Once you know her, you will know what to expect. And look at it this way: she’s not going to spend hours on the phone with someone she doesn’t want to go out with. You’ve already got one foot in the door. Good Luck!