Why younger women love dating older men: the age old question

March 20, 2008 – 9:49 am

All throughout history, men have been attracted to, loved and pursued younger women, and they often succeeded.

Today, the story is not much different. Why are they so successful at wooing younger women? What is it about older men that younger women find so attractive?

The online dating scene has opened up a world of possibilities to younger women who love to date older men.

Dating websites have created a forum where women can meet men that they otherwise would not have come into contact with, men who are outside of their peer and social circle. And they are taking advantage of it.

Women are browsing dating sites like never before looking for that perfect older gentleman.

There are a lot of reasons why women are attracted to older men. Security, power and sincerity are just a few of those reasons. The following will give you insight into why younger women choose to date older men:

  • Stability – Older men are often more stable. They have a career and are less likely to sell everything to go biking around the world. They know what they want out of life and have laid the groundwork for a successful future with a special someone. Younger men, on the other hand, are often very unstable. They are ready to change courses whenever they encounter the least amount of resistance.
  • Maturity – Older men are more mature, and they treat women with respect. Many women are tired of being treated callously and yearn for the chivalry of yesterday. They can find this in an older man. Younger men can sometimes be immature and treat women disrespectfully without even realizing it.
  • Power – Men who have been doing what they do for a while have more power. They have more power in their careers, they have more power financially and they command more power in their social relationships. Women have always been attracted to power and that is not about to change soon.
  • Patience – Attitude matures with time. Older men are often more patient than their younger counterparts. They speak more softly and more sincerely when confronted with obstacles. They are less apt to fly off the handle. Women like to be dealt with in a calm and respectful way.

As mentioned before, the internet has opened up a lot of opportunities for young women who love to date older men.

The same is true for men who like to date women who are younger than they are. Meeting people online is a great way to get to know someone before you meet them in person. It has also taken the anxiety out of dating outside the “norm.”

When you approach someone on a younger woman/older man dating website, you can rest assured that you will not get rejected because of your age. You can feel free to meet people who are ideal for you, regardless of their age.